SKILL GUIDE

PEGGING

A woman wearing a strap on penetrating a man anally. Mainstream now. Surprisingly common in long term hetero couples. Heres the actual guide.

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Pegging has gone from niche to mainstream in the last decade. Many hetero couples are curious. Some try and love it. Heres the practical introduction.

What Pegging Actually Is

Strap on penetration of a male partner. Most commonly in hetero couples but applies to any configuration.

The female partner wears a harness with a dildo. Penetrates the male partner anally. The mechanics are similar to anal sex generally with the role reversed from typical hetero patterns. Real practice with real community resources.

Getting Started

01
Talk first
Both partners need to be on board. The male partners desire is the foundation. Negotiate.
02
Start with anal play first
Fingers, then small toys, before strap on. Build comfort over weeks. See Anal Positions.
03
Buy beginner equipment
Comfortable harness. Smaller diameter starter dildo. Lots of lube. From a real sex shop or reputable online retailer.
04
Communicate during
The receiving partner directs pace and depth. The penetrating partner follows. Standard anal communication rules.
05
Aftercare
Pegging sessions can be emotionally intense. Aftercare matters.

The Bottom Line

Pegging is mainstream now. Most curious couples find it accessible if they build up.

Talk. Build with anal play first. Quality equipment. Communicate. Aftercare. Couples who try this often add it to their rotation as one option among many.

PEGGING

What Pegging Actually Is

Getting Started

The Bottom Line

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