SKILL GUIDE

WHAT TO
SAY

Talking during sex is the most underrated skill. Heres the practical guide for couples who want to add the verbal layer without it feeling forced.

SCROLL

Most couples are quiet during sex. Adding verbal communication transforms the experience for both partners. Heres what actually works.

Categories Of Sex Talk

Three types: practical (functional), affirming (compliment based), and hot (dirty talk). All three matter.

Practical: Right there. Slower. Harder. Position. Useful for actually getting what you need.

Affirming: You feel amazing. I love how you smell. Specific compliments during. The intimacy layer.

Hot: Dirty talk. Ranges from mild to explicit. Optional but powerful for couples who enjoy it.

01
Start with practical
Easiest entry. Just say what you want functionally. Right there. Slower.
02
Add specific affirmation
Compliment something specific. Your eyes when you do that. The way you sound.
03
Try hot when comfortable
Dirty talk feels weird at first. Practice. The first awkward attempts get past quickly.
04
Match your partner
If they go vocal, match. If they prefer quiet, dial it back. Read the room.

Talking during sex transforms the experience for both partners.

Practical first. Affirming next. Hot when comfortable. Match your partner. Most couples who add the verbal layer never go back.