Ceo Sex Position: The position named for the office chair

CEO position is the one where the receiver sits in a chair like a boss and the giver kneels or stands in front of them. It got named CEO because that is what someone in a c suite job presumably does. We are not making this up. Other people made it up. We are reporting.

What It Actually Is

Receiver in a chair. Giver in front. Penetration or oral happens. The chair is doing structural work.

The basic setup: receiver sits in a sturdy chair, often leaning back slightly, sometimes with their hips at the edge. Legs are spread. Giver kneels (for oral) or stands or kneels (for penetration). Variations exist depending on whether youre going for oral, penetration, or both. The chair provides the seating that lets the receiver focus entirely on receiving.

Quick aside. The CEO name is meant to evoke a power dynamic. The receiver is in the seat. The giver is below. Theres an obvious dom sub vibe baked in even if you do not lean into it explicitly. If thats not your thing, the position still works as just a normal seated position. Drop the CEO framing. Keep the chair. Done.

The Three Versions

CEO ORAL

Receiver sits in chair, legs spread

Giver kneels in front, performs oral

Most common form, easiest to set up

Best for: clitoral focus, longer oral sessions

CEO PENETRATION

Receiver scoots to the edge of the chair

Giver stands or kneels in front, enters

Chair height matters more than people think

Best for: face to face penetration with seated stability

CEO SWITCHING

Start with oral, transition to penetration

Receiver stays in chair the whole time

Giver does the moving

Best for: full sessions where the receiver is the focus

How To Actually Do It

01
Pick a chair
Sturdy. Wide enough seat. Some back support. NOT a desk chair with wheels. Wheels are a disaster waiting to happen. Use a dining chair, a sturdy armchair, or the foot of the bed if you have a bed frame that allows it.
02
Receiver settles in
Hips at the edge of the seat or fully back depending on what you are doing. Legs spread. Lean back slightly to open the angle. The receiver should feel relaxed and supported, not perched.
03
Giver gets into position
For oral: kneel or sit on a low stool, position face between the receivers thighs. Comfortable knee support is key because this can go for a while. For penetration: kneel on the floor (chair must be the right height) or stand if the chair is on a couch or bed.
04
Communication is everything
The receiver in CEO is in the powerful spot. They should ACT like it. Tell the giver what works. Adjust angle by lifting hips or sliding forward. The dynamic only works if both partners lean into it. If the receiver feels weird being directive, this position will feel awkward.
05
Add the visual
Receiver in clothes (open shirt, lifted skirt) is a common visual choice for CEO. Plays into the office or boss aesthetic. Optional. Skip if not your vibe. Keep if it adds to the energy.

Why It Works

CEO is the position where the receiver gets to actually relax. They sit. The giver does the work. Wild concept.

Couples who realized you do not always have to be on a bed

CEOs main appeal is letting the receiver fully focus on receiving without holding their own body weight. Lying flat on a bed is fine, but a slightly seated position with back support changes the experience. The receiver can see what the giver is doing. The receiver can use their hands. The receiver can adjust constantly without breaking the position.

Quick aside. The chair gives the receiver something to push against, brace on, or lean into. Most beds do not give you that. Try CEO once and you will notice the difference. Some couples then end up with a designated sex chair that is also somehow their reading chair. We are NOT asking which one it is.

Common Mistakes

Wrong chair. Office chair with wheels. Wobbly stool. Folding chair. None of these work. Fix: sturdy, wide, no wheels.

Wrong height for penetration. Chair height does not match givers natural angle. Whole position is awkward. Fix: try the chair height first, before penetration. Adjust by adding pillows under the receivers hips or asking the giver to kneel on a cushion.

Receiver passive. Sits there silently. The dynamic dies. Fix: receiver actually directs. Even if directing feels weird at first.

Giver knees on hard floor. Going for oral on hardwood. Knees give out in 4 minutes. Fix: pillow or folded blanket under the knees. Or a low stool. Save the knees.

The Bottom Line

CEO is sex with stage direction. The chair is the set. The receiver is the lead. The giver is the supporting role.

Get a sturdy chair. Receiver settles in. Giver gets to work. Communicate. Lean into the dynamic if it suits you, drop it if it doesnt. Most couples who try CEO once add it to their rotation as the position to use when one partner wants to be COMPLETELY focused on without doing any of the work.

CEO

What It Actually Is

The Three Versions

How To Actually Do It

Why It Works

Common Mistakes

The Bottom Line

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